My life has been SO busy these last few weeks. I guess all of us have been mesmerized by the TV, concerned about the effects of those horrible hurricanes. I have family all over the South, and by now have their cities memorized in my mind. Last year, I went to FL with my mother and darling nephew. [He has truly been the delight of all our lives. A more loved and perfect child never existed. But, I say that about my grandchildren, also.] Anyhow, a week after we left FL, a hurricane swept up through FL, with a path that barely missed family. We were most concerned about my ailing aunt and uncle in Homestead, who probably couldn't physically and emotionally handle any more destruction. My cousin in Key West has weathered several storms, and now just moves all her animals upstairs, and waits it out.
With this last hurricane, my son, daughter-in-law, and critters fled Houston and chilled in Austin. I was in daily contact with them. They arrived back home Monday, with no damage to home or autos. My family in Beaumont (one aunt, and four cousins and their families) were not as lucky. I phoned all of them, home phones and cells. No answer, no response. I searched through the Evacuees data bank...nothing. Finally, yesterday, I was able to reach one cousin. She has a severely mentally retarded daughter, who cannot handle the slightest change. They do not take her out of the home, as she just freaks out. She can not handle visitors in her home...nothing!!! When the hurricane hit, my family were lying on the floor of their church...for 12 hours. She said to me, "If you can just imagine our Lindsey, enduring all that.... for 12 hours...no letup. We thought that any minute we were dead. Then, the storm passed. No electricity, in one hundred degree heat, no plumbing, no sewage treatment. We fled to Houston and checked into a Marriott Residence Inn. Because we are evacuees, we were only allowed to stay there three days, then we had to move again." Luckily for them, a friend of another cousin, knew a family who allowed them to move into their ranch house. Another cousin, was caught in the hurricane, and ended up sleeping on the street. She found a shelter under/on a church step, and spent the night there. She made her way to her sister's home, where she still is. God bless her!!! She is taking care of their home, while she arranges for repairs on her, their, and her mother's home. Again, there is no electricity, no sewage treatment. She sleeps on the kitchen tile floor, as that is the coolest place in the house. And her with recent back surgery. My other two cousins are OK. One is in Houston, with a former mother in law. Another is with his family and mother on the outskirts of Beaumont. They also have no electricity, no sewage treatment, and are just eating out of cans. They have been through such trauma, but are so positive and grateful that it was not worse. I am just glad that they are safe and sound. Hopefully, they will all recover in time.
The drama in my life is centered around my family and the youth I work with. My mother suffered a torn rotator cuff and was in such pain, she was placed on narcotics. We had to provide round the clock care for her. My sisters and I took time off from work to care for her, and finally moved her into the home of one sister. She is going to have to have surgery. My little niece, who has two babies, was just diagnosed with a serious liver disease, and will eventually need a liver transplant. She is being treated by City of Hope and Loma Linda. She and husband are selling their home in order to move closer to her treatment centers. My aunt has Alzheimers, and has had a stroke. We don't anticipate her living a whole lot longer. I've had two kids at work make serious suicide attempts. One hung himself, and would have died if not for the quick actions of staff. She cut him down with an emergency knife, and thank goodness that youth is still alive. Another of my kids sliced his wrist. That was another close call. Another, this week, reported command hallucinations telling him to kill himself and others. And yet another kid, was released and within a month was killed in a shootout with police. What is this world coming to???
Through all this, we (I) have had to look at what is going right in our lives. For one thing, our whole family got together at a renewal of vows for my nephew who just returned from the Gulf. We are grateful that he is with us still. His carrier was the one where the two jets crashed. His job is to work on the flight deck. His father had been estranged from our family, probably a direct result of his incredibly crazy wife. Anyhow, he is now in the throes of divorcing this woman, and he has rejoined the family. He comes over from CA about every weekend to visit, and this has greatly pleased not only my mother, but the rest of us as well. It is amazing how things work out. He is looking at moving here and starting a business, but who knows. He was able to go dove hunting with our "war hero" for a few days, and we now have about eighty dove to cook with our Thanksgiving feast. We (I) will probably visit him in CA and do Disneyland in the near future. So, even though life has some horrible twists and turns, there is "a shining lining to those dark clouds". Maybe this is just what life is about...weathering the storms!
